Is this like therapy? JR Wolfe engages in a process of spiritual direction and relationship /life coaching to help you achieve your goals. We DO NOT diagnose or treat mental illness, and we DO NOT engage in therapy. These types of needs should be addressed with a qualified and licensed therapist. We are happy to provide you with referrals for such resources.
We work with you to achieve goals that you yourself create for connecting with God, embracing your identity, and/or building healthy intimate relationships.
What is spiritual direction? Spiritual direction is a longstanding tradition of a director partnering with an individual or small group of people to help them achieve a deeper connection to the Divine through conversation and spiritual practices.
What is relationship coaching? Relationships are hard, and often in the midst of them it’s difficult to maintain our own goals and wishes as we try to find common ground with our significant others. This becomes even more complex if you are learning to embrace and accept your gender identity and sexuality, trying a new relationship structure, or looking to explore different areas of kink. A relationship coach helps you set goals for the relationships you want, and works with you to help you achieve those goals. Coaching will not give you all the answers, instead we help you to discover those answers for yourself.
Are the things I discuss in coaching confidential? We absolutely respect client confidentiality. We will not discuss anything you tell us unless required by subpoena, or if you inform us of an imminent plan to harm yourself or another. We will not out you to anyone in your personal or professional life.
Why do you work under a professional name? While we dream of a world of acceptance, we are not there yet. In order to protect the identities of others within our family and friends, we utilize professional pseudonyms when interacting with clients.
What are your qualifications? I hold a Master of Divinity from a nationally accredited seminary at a major American university. I was ordained to ministry and had my ordination recognized by a major Christian denomination. I have served with many progressive, and inclusive churches for many years as well as other religious and nonreligious organizations as a spiritual advisor and chaplain.
I hate this and I hate what you’re doing! Thank you for stopping by. I’m probably not the right coach for you. I wish you good luck in your search.