Who We Are

Rev. J.R. Wolfe, MDiv (he/they), Coaching Partner, is a seminary trained and ordained pastor, and has been a professional religious worker in the Christian tradition for nearly twenty years. They began the work they are doing now when they went through a crisis of gender and sexuality that made them realize that they had never really made a study of sex and gender in the Christian Bible. They set out to discover for themselves what it meant to have good and ethical sex. J.R. identifies as nonbinary, pansexual, and a dominant. J.R. provides coaching under their professional name “J.R. Wolfe”.

Red (she/her), Managing Partner, has her Masters in Communication and Bachelor’s degree in Psychology. She is our Managing Partner. She is the mother of three children, one queer (they/them), a girl and a neuro-spicy boy. She has been exploring her own identity, spirituality, and sexuality for over 10 years years. In the middle of deconstructing from religious trauma in childhood, she strives to share and encourage those on the same journey. Married for 25 years and in a loving committed poly relationship with two amazing people and their beautiful children. Red identifies as female, heteroflexible, poly, and is a collared submissive.