Authentic Identity, Authentic Relationships, Authentic Faith.

JR Wolfe coaching is a professional coaching and spiritual direction practice helping you on the path to integrating your faith, relationships, and identity. Many in our world have forced people to make a difficult choice: choose your faith or your identity, fellowship in a religious community or loving who you are and with whom you choose. If your goal is to connect more closely to your faith, to your intimate relationships, or to your own identity, we want to help you achieve these goals. Being part of these communities ourselves, we welcome all faiths, LGBTQ+, kink, and non-traditional relationships.

Reach out today to start your journey. We will contact you within one business day.

Who We Are

Rev. J.R. Wolfe, MDiv (he/they), Coaching Partner, is a seminary trained and ordained pastor, and has been a professional religious worker in the Christian tradition for nearly twenty years. They began the work they are doing now when they went through a crisis of gender and sexuality that made them realize that they had never really made a study of sex and gender in the Christian Bible. They set out to discover for themselves what it meant to have good and ethical sex. J.R. identifies as nonbinary, pansexual, and a dominant. J.R. provides coaching under their professional name “J.R. Wolfe”.

Red (she/her), Managing Partner, has her Masters in Communication and Bachelor’s degree in Psychology. She is our Managing Partner. She is the mother of three children, one queer (they/them), a girl and a neuro-spicy boy. She has been exploring her own identity, spirituality, and sexuality for over 10 years years. In the middle of deconstructing from religious trauma in childhood, she strives to share and encourage those on the same journey. Married for 25 years and in a loving committed poly relationship with two amazing people and their beautiful children. Red identifies as female, heteroflexible, poly, and is a collared submissive.